And while many of us believe we have a balanced sense of self,
our insecurities often creep silently into our life, leaving uncertainty
and regret in its wake.
Emotional security is a subtle yet profound issue because without
it you can develop unhealthy behaviors and attitudes, like codependency,
control, neediness, demand, low self-esteem and more. It can also
affect specific areas of our lives, including our relationship
and career success.
Being
emotionally secure leads to a healthy life in general because
there are no unhealthy attachments, you are secure to be alone
or in the company of others and you do not require validation
from others. You are more willing to take risks because you have
the confidence you need to achieve success in every aspect of
your life.
There are ways to overcome insecurity. Engage your friends and
loved ones in communication about your feelings and how they can
help you to feel more at ease. Working with a coach or therapist
may help discover the root of your insecurities.
Numerous self-help books are available to help those who struggle
with insecurities and low self-esteem. It is also important to
indulge in nurturing therapies such as massage and aromatherapy.
Not merely "guilty pleasures," these kinds of therapies
are an important way to demonstrate your self worth.
The following aromatherapy blends will support you during your
drive to overcome your insecurities. These blends will help you
gain a profound sense of inner peace and healthy detachment, allowing
you to feel secure by eliminating any unhealthy needs you may
have for validation and attention.
Prepare each of these blends by pouring the essential oils into
a 10ml bottle, and then adding organic vegetable oil to fill.
I recommend sweet almond, jojoba or safflower vegetable oils.
Inner Peace & Balance
This blend will help you to gain more insight about your needs
and wants, and achieve the balance you need to become more self-accepting.
-7 drops Sandalwood
-3 drops Juniper
-3 drops Cypress
-3 drops Cedarwood
Massage the solar plexus and third eye. Pour one-third
of the blend into your warm bath water and soak for at least 15
minutes. Pour a few drops into the palm of your hands and inhale
deeply as needed throughout the day.
Emotional Security
This blends helps you become healthily detached from negative
feelings like neediness, co-dependence and insecurity, and become
emotionally independent and self-sufficient.
-5 drops Sandalwood
-4 drops St. John's Wort
-2 drops Rose otto
Massage the solar plexus, heart chakra and third eye. Pour a third
of the blend into your warm bath water and soak for at least 15
minutes. Pour a few drops into the palm of your hands and inhale
deeply as needed throughout the day.
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