Making Your Home The Center of Activity
As our children grow up, there are certain boundaries that naturally
loosen as they become more mature and independent. When - and -
if these boundaries ease up, all depends on how responsible each
individual child is. When that point comes, your child's peers will
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There's a simple way for you to guide your children without domineering
them.
Make your home the center of their activities. By doing
this you will learn who your child's friends are, how they act around
one another and most importantly: what they are doing.
Make your home inviting to your children's friends. Encourage your
child to invite them to home activities.
Home Activities for Teens
Some activities they could share in your home include:
- movies (you oversee content)
- BBQ's (kids can bring their own meat to lessen costs)
- swimming parties (if you have access to one nearby)
- TV sports - basketball, Olympics, Super-Bowl, World Series,
etc.
- dancing (furniture can be pushed aside for a few hours)
- study groups (it can make homework more fun as long as it IS
being done!)
- celebrations/holidays
- New Year's Eve, Memorial Day, 4th of July, birthdays, etc.
- dinners - (how about sharing your family dinner with a friend
once in awhile?)
Be available not only to welcome your child's peers in your home,
but to get to know their parents as well. The price to pay for a
fuller and noiser house, sometimes, is well worth the knowledge
and tools it will equip you with in guiding your growing child into
a safe and trustworthy adult.
© copyright 2002 Reprinted with permission
Dionna
Sanchez works on creating an activity-centered home for
her 3 children in Boise, ID. She is Editor of Emphasis
On Moms.

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